But for a guy to get a girl to go out on a date him by text, he has to do things quite differently.
But when you know how to get a girl to go out on a date with texts, all the rejections, the disinterest, and the flaking, will practically disappear.
For maximum success, ask out girls that you think probably already like you.
If you only ask out girls that you like, but don’t like you, you’ll have less chance of success.
Before texting, have an idea for a date already planned. Know what you’d like to do with her, where you guys can go and when it’s going to take place.
Don’t offer up vague date ideas to her like “Want to hang out sometime?” Doing this makes it very likely that she’ll either say no or just flake out on you.
Come up with something that you think she might like doing like her taste in music, or food, or what she likes doing and use those for an idea for a date.
If you just met her recently, then try make the first date something short but social and interactive, like getting coffee or having lunch together.
It’s usually a good idea not go to a movie or somewhere that’s new to the both of you for the first time because these can get awkward pretty easily and then it won’t be fun for either of you.
Here are some examples you can use to ask a girl out on a date with text:
“I’m thinking about grabbing a coffee somewhere. Wanna join me?”
“I need a Starbucks right now. Meet me there!”
“So which Starbucks have you NOT been to yet?”
“Wanna get buzzed? As in caffeine?”
“I need a coffee. You want a coffee. I’m sure we can find a compromise.”
“Let’s get lunch somewhere.”
“I’m thinking about having dinner for my last meal of the day. You thinking the same?
“I like you. I think you like me too. Let’s go have dinner at a nice restaurant.”
Before asking her out, start the conversation with some small talk and ask casual questions about her day or what she’s been up to lately to gauge her level of interest and mood.
If she seems to be in a good mood and open to doing something, then ask her out.
But if she seems upset for some reason or just not interested, then don’t ask her out.
To increase your chances of getting her to say yes to a date, give her specific time options so her thinking goes from “Do I want to?” to “What time is good for me?”
When she says yes, end the conversation and let her know what you’re doing to do to have everything ready and then tell her you’ll see her later.
If she says no, then say it was good talking to her and end the conversation. Unless of course, if after saying no, she offers up other alternatives, then find something else that you guys can do.
