Just like when you’re talking to a girl in person, enjoy your conversation with her and end it before things get quiet by telling her that you have to go and that you’ll talk to her later.

Always end your texts before there’s nothing left to talk about, not after.

Don’t keep texting her just to keep the conversation going. Be willing to end it.

End each conversation with her wanting more by ending them at a high point. High points are when she’s laughing, or writing a long text. These are the best places to end it.

Get her thinking about you after you’re done texting, by telling her what you’re going to do next, or what the two of you will be doing together later.

If you’re going to meet up with her for drinks, say “I’ll be over at the far end of the bar with a drink in my hand.”

If you’re not going to see her soon, then plant a picture of you in her mind by telling her what you’re going to do or where you’re going. And make these pictures interesting.

Set up your next opportunity to text her by saying that you’ll text again later about whatever it was you guys were talking about.

Example: “I have to go now but I’ll text you more about this later. Bye.”

If your texting and flirting with her was going really well and she’s interested in seeing you, then take things to the next level by asking her out.

If it’s the day time, then keep it light and friendly by saying something like “Hey, what are you doing right now? Let’s meet up. Are you hungry?”

If it’s the evening then say something more forward and enticing like “What are your plans tonight? Want to grab dinner or drinks somewhere?”

The best way to have these invitations work, is by putting them at the end of a text and not be the entire text itself.

Example: “Yeah I love the Seahawks too. Hey, what are you doing right now? Let’s meet up.”

By keeping your invitations to her casual like this, it relieves the pressure of an official date and makes it much more likely that she’ll go along with whatever you suggest.

If you find yourself doing most of the texting, or all the replying back, or all you’re getting from her are one word responses, then it’s time to stop texting.

If you’re trying to think of something to say but not coming up with anything, then it’s time to stop texting.

And if you’re always the one texting first, and trying to move things along but keep getting a bunch of excuses, then it’s probably time to stop texting her for good.

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Hera are some of the most mistakes that most guys make when it comes to texting girls.

If you make just one these mistakes, you can turn what was initially an exciting encounter with a girl, into a boring and frustrating “never going to go anywhere” friendship.

But if you can avoid making these mistakes, and send her texts that makes her feel good, you’ll notice more of your phone numbers turning into real dates.

1. Not Texting With Enough Girls

Whenever a guy is texting only one girl, he usually gets into a scarcity mindset that causes him to get overly invested in every text that he and she sends to each other.

To avoid getting into this situation you should be texting lots of girls at the same time.

When you’re texting a lot of girls and not expecting anything from any one of them, you’ll have a more carefree and fun attitude about you that women will find sexy and attractive.

2. Always Being The First One To Text

If you’re always texting her first, she won’t be that excited about receiving them from you, because she’ll always be expecting them.

But if you can be patient and let her text you first, you won’t look desperate and needy.

A good rule of thumb for texting a girl back is however long she takes to reply back to your texts, take twice that long to reply back to hers.

3. Sending Texts That Serve No Purpose

The more guys a girl has texting her, the more often she’s receiving the same type of texts and the more your texts need to be different for you to stand out.

Make sure all your texts offers value to her and shows your unique personality. Make them fun and interesting. Be different.

4. Coming On Too Strong and Too Soon 

Don’t think too much about when to send her a text or what to say.

Just text her when you have something to say. Your texts should sound natural and organic.

Don’t go overboard on how you feel about her or she’ll see you as needy, clingy, and desperate.

5. Texting Her Too Often

If you text a girl too often, it comes off as being needy and desperate and takes all the fun and excitement and challenge out of meeting someone new.

6. Giving Up Too Early

When a guy texts a girl and he doesn’t get one back from her right away, very often he’ll get frustrated and think she’s not interested and give up.

But the real reason he hasn’t heard from her, could be anything.

She could be too busy at the moment to text back, or she could be in a bad mood, or her battery is dead, or she doesn’t have a signal.

Don’t always assume the worse and don’t expect a girl to text you back right away. It kills the attraction.

7. Taking Her Texts Too Seriously

Nobody enjoys having a serious conversation over text. Keep those type of conversations to in-person talks only.

Keep your texts to her fun, playful, and light hearted. Never serious.

8. Using Text To Avoid Having Real In Person Conversations

A lot of people today are apprehensive when it comes to having real world conversations.

Show her that you’re different by calling her every once in a while and talking to her.

Don’t use text as your sole means of communicating with a girl. Use it in conjunction with real world talking.

9. Sending Her Needless Texts

Don’t text a girl if you don’t really need to. When she says “I’ll see you later.” you don’t need to say anything else back to her other than “Later.”

When you text a girl back every time and right away, saying whatever you can think of, she’ll sense your neediness and lose interest.

10. Letting Your Conversations With Her Drag On Too Long

 If you let your conversations drag on too long, you’ll run out of things to say, and it’ll start to get boring and awkward.

End every conversation with her wanting more by ending them during a high point.

After you’ve been texting for a while, and you feel good about how she’s responding, end it with something flirty like, “As much as I like where this is going, I have to go.”

Don’t tell her exactly what you have to do. Create some mystery and intrigue by being vague, spontaneous, and unpredictable with your texts.

This is what will get her thinking about you after you’ve been texting.

11. Thinking Too Much

 Don’t spend more than minute thinking about what to text to a girl you like.

Just text what you want to say to her and go back to what you were doing before.

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To get a guy out on a date, all she has to do is text him and ask him out, and then get ready.

But for a guy to get a girl to go out on a date him by text, he has to do things quite differently.

But when you know how to get a girl to go out on a date with texts, all the rejections, the disinterest, and the flaking, will practically disappear.

For maximum success, ask out girls that you think probably already like you.

If you only ask out girls that you like, but don’t like you, you’ll have less chance of success.

Before texting, have an idea for a date already planned. Know what you’d like to do with her, where you guys can go and when it’s going to take place.

Don’t offer up vague date ideas to her like “Want to hang out sometime?” Doing this makes it very likely that she’ll either say no or just flake out on you.

Come up with something that you think she might like doing like her taste in music, or food, or what she likes doing and use those for an idea for a date.

If you just met her recently, then try make the first date something short but social and interactive, like getting coffee or having lunch together.

It’s usually a good idea not go to a movie or somewhere that’s new to the both of you for the first time because these can get awkward pretty easily and then it won’t be fun for either of you.

Here are some examples you can use to ask a girl out on a date with text:

“I’m thinking about grabbing a coffee somewhere. Wanna join me?”

“I need a Starbucks right now. Meet me there!”

“So which Starbucks have you NOT been to yet?”

“Wanna get buzzed? As in caffeine?”

“I need a coffee. You want a coffee. I’m sure we can find a compromise.”

“Let’s get lunch somewhere.”

“I’m thinking about having dinner for my last meal of the day. You thinking the same?

“I like you. I think you like me too. Let’s go have dinner at a nice restaurant.”

Before asking her out, start the conversation with some small talk and ask casual questions about her day or what she’s been up to lately to gauge her level of interest and mood.

If she seems to be in a good mood and open to doing something, then ask her out.

But if she seems upset for some reason or just not interested, then don’t ask her out.

To increase your chances of getting her to say yes to a date, give her specific time options so her thinking goes from “Do I want to?” to “What time is good for me?”

When she says yes, end the conversation and let her know what you’re doing to do to have everything ready and then tell her you’ll see her later.

If she says no, then say it was good talking to her and end the conversation. Unless of course, if after saying no, she offers up other alternatives, then find something else that you guys can do.

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