Hera are some of the most mistakes that most guys make when it comes to texting girls.
If you make just one these mistakes, you can turn what was initially an exciting encounter with a girl, into a boring and frustrating “never going to go anywhere” friendship.
But if you can avoid making these mistakes, and send her texts that makes her feel good, you’ll notice more of your phone numbers turning into real dates.
1. Not Texting With Enough Girls
Whenever a guy is texting only one girl, he usually gets into a scarcity mindset that causes him to get overly invested in every text that he and she sends to each other.
To avoid getting into this situation you should be texting lots of girls at the same time.
When you’re texting a lot of girls and not expecting anything from any one of them, you’ll have a more carefree and fun attitude about you that women will find sexy and attractive.
2. Always Being The First One To Text
If you’re always texting her first, she won’t be that excited about receiving them from you, because she’ll always be expecting them.
But if you can be patient and let her text you first, you won’t look desperate and needy.
A good rule of thumb for texting a girl back is however long she takes to reply back to your texts, take twice that long to reply back to hers.
3. Sending Texts That Serve No Purpose
The more guys a girl has texting her, the more often she’s receiving the same type of texts and the more your texts need to be different for you to stand out.
Make sure all your texts offers value to her and shows your unique personality. Make them fun and interesting. Be different.
4. Coming On Too Strong and Too Soon
Don’t think too much about when to send her a text or what to say.
Just text her when you have something to say. Your texts should sound natural and organic.
Don’t go overboard on how you feel about her or she’ll see you as needy, clingy, and desperate.
5. Texting Her Too Often
If you text a girl too often, it comes off as being needy and desperate and takes all the fun and excitement and challenge out of meeting someone new.
6. Giving Up Too Early
When a guy texts a girl and he doesn’t get one back from her right away, very often he’ll get frustrated and think she’s not interested and give up.
But the real reason he hasn’t heard from her, could be anything.
She could be too busy at the moment to text back, or she could be in a bad mood, or her battery is dead, or she doesn’t have a signal.
Don’t always assume the worse and don’t expect a girl to text you back right away. It kills the attraction.
7. Taking Her Texts Too Seriously
Nobody enjoys having a serious conversation over text. Keep those type of conversations to in-person talks only.
Keep your texts to her fun, playful, and light hearted. Never serious.
8. Using Text To Avoid Having Real In Person Conversations
A lot of people today are apprehensive when it comes to having real world conversations.
Show her that you’re different by calling her every once in a while and talking to her.
Don’t use text as your sole means of communicating with a girl. Use it in conjunction with real world talking.
9. Sending Her Needless Texts
Don’t text a girl if you don’t really need to. When she says “I’ll see you later.” you don’t need to say anything else back to her other than “Later.”
When you text a girl back every time and right away, saying whatever you can think of, she’ll sense your neediness and lose interest.
10. Letting Your Conversations With Her Drag On Too Long
If you let your conversations drag on too long, you’ll run out of things to say, and it’ll start to get boring and awkward.
End every conversation with her wanting more by ending them during a high point.
After you’ve been texting for a while, and you feel good about how she’s responding, end it with something flirty like, “As much as I like where this is going, I have to go.”
Don’t tell her exactly what you have to do. Create some mystery and intrigue by being vague, spontaneous, and unpredictable with your texts.
This is what will get her thinking about you after you’ve been texting.
11. Thinking Too Much
Don’t spend more than minute thinking about what to text to a girl you like.
Just text what you want to say to her and go back to what you were doing before.
